Last month , Wireddid a study of date profile with the service of OkCupid and Match.com in gild to gather some tips on writing the perfect visibility . Here are seven thing they discovered from crunching the numbers on the tidings people employ in their dating profiles .

1. A mellow athletic vibe works well

The top five word used in male profiles with the in high spirits average attraction ratings project a vibration that ’s fit , but laid back : surfing , breaker , yoga , skiing , the ocean . The ladies also do well with the mellow acrobatic vibe , but with a dash of urban sophistication thrown in . The top five in women ’s profiles : surfing , yoga , athlete , London , NYC .

2. A religious one, not so much

The news “ God ” got modest evaluation across the board .

3. Work outside gender stereotypes

The words “ my child ” ? Very attractive in a man ’s profile . Not so attractive in a woman ’s . “ Electronics , ” on the other deal , solve very well for the ladies and not so well for the guys .

4. Talk about Radiohead

Like the hot masses do . That was the high scoring band name .

5. Talk about cats, but don’t mention your own

The word “ cats ” was ranked moderately high , but “ my cats”—not so attractive .

6. A double standard for men and women on girls

Men ’s profiles did better if they used the word “ woman ” instead of “ girl . ” But cleaning woman did a flake better if they come to to themselves as girls .

7. Whom is hot

Men who used the tidings “ whom ” get 31 percent more contact . Whom does this surprise ? NotMental Flossreaders , of class , for whom nothing is aphrodisiacal than a dexterously manage documentary type .

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