The Learning Lab daycare center in Homewood, Ill.Photo:Google Maps
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A family is in search of a new day care after an employee allegedly put a 4-year-old boy in a garbage can because he refused to take a nap.
Other children at the day care — where both Grayson and his 2-year-old brother have been going for almost two years — meanwhile were not only present but also appeared to watch the entire incident unfold in front of them.
“My first thing was, of course I’m crying,” Forte recalled of watching the footage for the first time. “And I immediately went to the police station.”
However, she and the boys’ father, Justin Barnes, were quickly informed that there was nothing the police could do because their 4-year-old son had not suffered any physical injuries.
And though the Homewood day care allegedly fired the employee who placed the child in the trash can — and another who “failed to intervene” — the parents are still concerned, especially because multiple other staff members allegedly witnessed the incident and did nothing to stop it from happening or report it after the fact.
The parents told WLS they are grateful to Grayson for telling them, because if he hadn’t, they may never have learned what he went through.
The Learning Lab, they added, should have told them before he did.
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When questioned about the incident, the day care employee allegedly told Forte and Barnes that it was a joke, the parents told WLS. But the security footage tells a different story and has left the family wondering how a day care professional could have such a drastic reaction to such a common occurrence.
“If you work with kids, I mean, you have to learn,” Forte told WLS. “They should know how to deescalate these certain situations when they don’t want to take a nap.”
The Learning Lab did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s request for comment on Sunday, Jan. 19; neither did the Homewood Police Department.
In a statement toWLSon Friday, Jan. 17, The Learning Lab said, “We tried to work cooperatively and transparently with the family. We are working with our licensing agency, DCFS and the Homewood police. We have shared additional information we became aware of yesterday because we believe it warranted further investigation and possible action against the person who did this.”
Forte and Barnes are now considering a civil lawsuit against the day care and, in the meantime, are searching for a new spot for their sons, according to the Chicago station.
They are also worried for their son’s mental well-being and particularly about the lasting impact of the humiliation he experienced, because of how many people witnessed the incident.
“We just want to make sure that Grayson is aware that the situation that happened, that the helper — what she did was wrong,” Barnes said. “What he did, he did nothing wrong.”
“It was just way worse than I could imagine,” the concerned dad added. “I’m worried about what he feels.”
source: people.com
