Tales of PresidentJohn F. Kennedy’s infidelities during his10-year marriageto First LadyJackie Kennedycirculated even before hisdeath in 1963.
In a 2016 cover story,PEOPLE profiledsome of the women who claimed or reported to be involved with the 35th president.
However, in August 2021,another woman came forwardwith news of an alleged affair. Diana de Vegh said sheengaged in a relationship with the presidentwhen she was 20 years old.
The affair allegedly began in 1958, making him twice her age. De Vegh said that Kennedy would often say there was “something special” about her, which admittedly captured her attention.
However, this, she said, “is not a romantic story.” In fact, she said it took “years to recover” from the romance — “almost as many years” as it took for her to come forward with her story.
De Vegh said that she was a junior at Radcliffe College in Cambridge, Mass., when she attended her first political dinner, a benefit for Kennedy. She and Kennedy locked eyes from across the table. At one point, the then-Massachusetts Senator asked someone to give up their seat “so a tired old man can sit next to a pretty girl,” leaving the college student starstruck.
Senator John F. Kennedy portrait in 1957.Hank Walker/The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Hank Walker/The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
The two supposedly met up several times following the benefit. Eventually, de Vegh said, Kennedy invited her back to his apartment in Boston, and the relationship turned romantic, with de Vegh even moving to Washington, D.C., after Kennedy was elected president.
“What could I have been thinking?” de Vegh said, adding, “I was feeling in full movie-star-infatuation mode.”
She wrote, “For a Great Man, he was still in the throes of the male mythology of his time: see pretty young woman, have pretty young woman.”
Read on for more women profiled in PEOPLE’s 2016 cover story.
Judith Exner
Judith Exner in the 1960s.TED LAU/IPOL
TED LAU/IPOL
Judith Exner, who served as a conduit between JFK and mobster Sam Giancana, famouslyclaimed that she had an abortionafter she became pregnant with the president’s child.
“Jack couldn’t have been more loving, more concerned about my feelings, more considerate, more gentle,” Exner, the daughter of a well-off architect, told PEOPLE of JFK in a 1988 interview.
“Her good friendsTruman Capoteand Gore Vidal told me she knew all about Judith Exner and everybody else, and she read my stories on Judith with high interest,” Smith said.
According toThe New York Times, Exner died at age 65 in 1999 after a battle with breast cancer.
Marilyn Monroe
A rare photo taken after the performance during a party at the home of movie executive Arthur Krim — which was not publicly released until 2010 — is reportedly the only known image of Kennedy with Monroe.
In his 1997 bookThe Dark Side of Camelot, journalist Seymour Hersh wrote that the star’s “instability posed a constant threat” to the President before shemysteriously overdosed at age 36in 1962.
John F. Kennedy and Marilyn Monroe during a party at the home of Arthur Krim in May 1962.Cecil Stoughton/Time Life Pictures/Getty Images
Cecil Stoughton/Time Life Pictures/Getty Images
J. Randy Taraborrelli’s biography,Jackie: Public, Private, Secret, published in July 2023, revealed that Jackie was shocked to learn that Dr. Marianne Kris, the therapist she began seeing in the 1970s for her PTSD over JFK’s assassination,had once treated Monroe.
“When Jackie confronted her,” Taraborrelli wrote, “[Dr.] Kris said she felt no responsibility to inform her about any former patients in the same way she’d never reveal that she’d ever treated Jackie. Marianne asked, ‘How is this relevant?’ to which Jackie responded, ‘How is thatnotrelevant?’ "
Mary Pinchot Meyer
Mary Pinchot Meyer with husband Lieutenant Cord Meyer, Jr. at their New York home in 1945.Bettmann
The sister-in-law of legendaryWashington Posteditor Ben Bradlee chronicled her alleged affair with Kennedy in her diary, Bradlee later revealed.
In early 2016, a handwritten love letter from JFK to Mary Pinchot Meyersurfaced in an online auctionfrom Boston’s RR Auction.
“Why don’t you leave suburbia for once — come and see me — either here — or at the Cape next week or in Boston the 19th,” Kennedy wrote in the four-page letter. “I know it is unwise, irrational, and that you may hate it — on the other hand, you may not — and I will love it.”
He continued, “You say that it is good for me not to get what I want. After all of these years — you should give me a more loving answer than that. Why don’t you just say yes.”
Meyer was murdered, shot twice at a close range, in Georgetown in October 1964. Her death is still unresolved and has often been associated with JFK-related conspiracy theories.
Mimi Alford
Intern Mimi Alford standing in front of the White House in the summer of 1962.Courtesy Mimi Alford
As a White House intern in 1962, Mimi Alford claimed to have begun an 18-month relationship with JFK — an affair outlined in her explosive 2012 memoir,Once Upon a Secret: My Affair With John F. Kennedy and Its Aftermath.
She found the president “magnetic” but told PEOPLE in 2012 that “he wasn’t looking for a relationship to replace his marriage.”
Jill Cowan
White House Press Office secretary Jill Cowan in the early 1960s.Office of Pierre Salinger/John F. Kennedy Presidential Library and Museum
Office of Pierre Salinger/John F. Kennedy Presidential Library and Museum
Jill Cowan was a secretary in the White House Press Office and often accompanied the president on official trips,perThe Atlantic. She never commented on the details of their relationship.
She did, however, say that JFK was “fascinated with youth” in a 1965 oral history housed at the JFK Library. Cowan also said in the same interview how much he admired his wife, noting he was “very proud of the fact Mrs. Kennedy had kept a book of all the place settings and pictures of the flowers, the whole sort of personal touches in the White House.”
Priscilla Wear
Headshot of White House staff member Priscilla Wear in the early 1960s.John F. Kennedy Presidential Library and Museum
John F. Kennedy Presidential Library and Museum
Priscilla Wear was also a White House staff member who worked under JFK’s secretary, Evelyn Lincoln.
The alleged affair was apparentlysomething that Jackie was aware of, according to Barbara Gamarekian, a Kennedy press aide.
While speaking in French to aParis-Matchreporter, Jackie commented about Wear, Gamarekian recalled in an oral history housed at the JFK Library.
“Mrs. Kennedy said, ‘This is the girl who supposedly is sleeping with my husband,’ and the reporter was utterly taken aback.”
source: people.com
